Terms
Plain terms for a numbered book.
Last updated October 25, 2026.
Reservations
The first printing is 500 copies, numbered by hand in the order they are reserved. You can pay today by card, which locks your number, or be invoiced when the first printing goes to press. Prices are in Canadian dollars.
Refunds
A full refund any time before the first printing goes to press, no questions. Write to book@defusely.com.
Delivery
Your copy will be in your hands within 90 days of purchase. We ship to Canada, the United States, the United Kingdom, Ireland, Australia, New Zealand, Germany, France, the Netherlands, Sweden, Norway and Denmark. There is no separate shipping charge at checkout.
If it arrives damaged
Until the book is in your hands, it is ours. If a parcel is lost or damaged on the way, that is our problem to solve, not yours.
If your copy arrives damaged or misprinted, write to book@defusely.com within 30 days and send a photo. We replace it, same number wherever we can, at no cost. You do not need to ship the damaged copy back.
If a parcel has not arrived 30 days after the 90 day window, treat it as lost and tell us. We send another copy or refund you in full. Your choice.
Past that, a numbered copy is not returnable once it has reached you, because it is yours by number and cannot be given to anyone else. If something is still wrong, write anyway. We would rather fix it than hide behind this paragraph.
Membership
The membership is $9 a month or $72 a year. Cancel any time by writing to us; it stops renewing at the end of the period you have paid for. Every numbered copy includes it.
Where the money goes
The book pays its own bills, and not one dollar more. Everything after that goes to dementia and Alzheimer’s research. Receipts are posted on this site every year.
The practices
The practices in the book and on this site are for reflection. They are not medical or psychological treatment. If you are struggling, please talk to a doctor or someone you trust.
Words
The text of Back. To you. and this site is © 2026 Jasen Rockliffe. Share a line with credit and a link; please do not republish whole pages.
Law
These terms are governed by the laws of Ontario, Canada.